Friday, August 12, 2011

How can I recover from a relationship with a narcissist (NPD)?

It was our last and final big breakup (I don't know why I kept going back to him). He really tore me down, put me down, criticized me, would twist things to make things my fault instead of his, was completely irrational and unstable and highly sensitive, everything was about him, nothing about me, total disregard for me and pretty much anyone else. What got me swept up into this was the "too perfect" beginnings and all the big things he'd say and talk about our future and his big love for me and all that. Before you know it, you're doing everything for them and basically their servant, while they make you feel like a terrible, horrible person. I'm supposed to be relieved he ended things for good this time on some ridiculous reason blaming me of course that doesn't make sense - but I'm still so confused and hurt and heartbroken. Please help! Thanks.

Input on putting my dog down?

Our family dog, Scooter, was struck with vestibular disease last year. He's 14 years old and is on his last limb. He has a bad leg which makes his walking even more unstable. He somewhat drags it from time to time. He has accidents constantly and he can't be left home alone for more than around three hours because of it. He still eats and has a love for food, but yet a majority of the time he just looks depressed. Maybe it's because we can't give him constant attention anymore since we don't have time. His sister is extremely healthy compared to him and we expect her to last at least a couple more years. But the rest of the family is talking about putting him down. I can tell there's still some happiness left in him...but..I'm just not sure about anything. With the accidents, falling down, bad leg (which he chews constantly making it bleed), arthritis, and everything else...maybe putting him down is the best thing to do. I'm 50/50 on it. I love him to death and I can't imagine ending his life unnaturally...but then again, he's taking a toll on our family and I have no idea how happy he is or how much pain he is in...

How can I use TextNow Voice in the TextNow iPad app?

I just redeemed 30 credits to go to 100 free minutes of calling, how do I acces that? I went thru downloading all these crappy apps on my iPad to get a phone on it for nothing. Any help? Thank you.

What is the Price of Taxing the Rich?

for every dollar taken in taxes,the govt spends 10 to re-disrtribute that one dollar...any time money is taken out of the economy, it means less money business has access to...if a busness has no money,they will not hire....jobs are ALWAYS the first casualty of tax and spend liberals...

What is your opinion on Amanda Knox? Innocent or guilty, why?

I know without a doubt that Amanda Knox is innocent. There is little to no actual evidence to convict her, and the judge who convicted her is mentally unstable, with his insane claims. He's also done this before, to a two guys, Mario Spezi and Douglas Preston, back in the 1980's. Douglas Preston wrote a book about it and about the killings (also the killer) that that same judge accused Mario Spezi in particular of committing, using the same BS claims of satanic cults and sh*t like that. The book is called "The Monster of Florence". I know that she's innocent.

Why does installous close after multitasking?

Ok so im trying to download an app in installous i multitask its fine comeback to it start playing an app then it just stops downloading

George Carlin once said, "Most people with low self-esteem have earned it." What does that mean? Do you agree?

I keep thinking about this quote because I feel as if I have low self-esteem. I'm a 36 year old man who is bipolar and schizoaffective and I feel as if low self-esteem has been dogging me my whole life. One thing I can say for sure is that I do believe we get what we deserve. In other words, we are where we are in life because of our actions in the past. So if we are down and out, we must've done some things to get there. Some people believe in victimhood. They believe they are merely victims. And to a certain extent, people are victims of circumstance. People cannot control their genetic make up. And, in some cases, mentally ill people have a chemical imbalance that causes them to be mentally unstable. Some things people can control and some things they cannot control. So I guess you could say I am where I am because of a combination of the two things- not only has my chemical imbalance been responsible for my place in life but also the decisions I made in life have determined my outcome. What do you think about all of this?